Being a wife from a distance wasn’t something I planned.
But this is the path that God has written for us.
On the outside, people see me holding it all together — managing work, daily life, looking fine.
But behind the scenes… there's a part of me quietly holding in the longing.
A part of me pretending to be too busy, just to stop myself from thinking about him too much.
People ask,
“When are you going to visit your husband?”
“Why aren’t you two living together yet?”
I just smile.
Not everything has an easy answer.
There are so many things I’m still figuring out — work, finances, timing, the world being unstable lately. It’s not an excuse. It’s just reality.
And I’m doing my best to face it with strength.
They saw our beautiful wedding photos.
But not many know the story after that.
We built this marriage across countries.
We’re learning to be husband and wife through longing, through prayers, through video calls that sometimes disconnect.
But we never disconnect from hope.
Each day I learn to be patient.
Each night I remind myself to believe — our time will come.
God willing, I’ll visit him this September.
I just pray everything goes smoothly.
To all the wives out there living far from their husbands — I see you.
And I pray you stay strong. Just like I’m trying to be, every single day.
Because being a wife doesn’t always mean being next to him every day…
It means your heart stays loyal, your prayers stay sincere — no matter the distance.
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