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Note to My Readers: Heads up! This blog is currently under a little renovation. I'm in the middle of refreshing the look and updating the content to make it more meaningful — especially as I share my love story, Turkish language learning journey, and lifestyle experiences.

Feel free to explore the older posts, and come back soon for new updates, fresh posts, and a whole new vibe! πŸ’›πŸ“–

Tuesday

Cuci Mata gambar kahwin

Malam ni aku belek-belek balik gambar kahwin. Tak tahu kenapa, rasa dia lain. Padahal baru je berlalu. Tapi hati ni cepat sangat rindu. Rindu pada momen yang aku sendiri pun belum sempat hadam betul-betul.

Gambar bawah ni — aku pilih tiga dulu. Bukan sebab paling cantik. Tapi sebab masa ni, aku rasa macam dunia kejap senyap. Aku tak dengar bunyi orang, tak fikir apa-apa. Aku cuma rasa, "Ya Allah, aku dah kahwin."


Aku tak pasti orang lain rasa macam mana waktu kahwin, tapi untuk aku... dia bukan cuma majlis. Dia satu detik yang buat aku rasa berubah, tanpa aku sedar. Dari seorang anak, aku jadi isteri. Dari hidup sendiri-sendiri, ke hidup yang perlu banyak belajar kongsi.

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P/S:
Kalau korang pun ada moment kahwin yang buat korang rasa “berhenti sekejap dunia”, komen bawah ni. Nak baca kisah orang lain juga. Kadang-kadang kisah biasa pun boleh buat hati rasa hangat balik. πŸ•Š️

A Day in My Life – Between Work Stress & Missing You

Setiap pagi, alarm belum sempat bunyi pun aku dah celik mata. I'm the type yang suka bersiap awal. Biar lambat sikit keluar rumah, janji tak kelam kabut. Lepas siap-siap, terus gerak ke office macam biasa.

Sampai je office, the first thing on my mind — breakfast! Nasib baik office aku memang pemurah. Free Indian breakfast & lunch disediakan setiap hari. Tapi harini aku skip lunch sebab menu dia… sardin. Hmm, not in the mood.

So I decided to go out and treat myself. Shell Out lunch set RM19.90 — affordable, sedap, and worth it.

And oh, I’m not the type yang takut makan sorang, lepak sorang. From before kahwin sampai sekarang pun, aku memang jenis independent. Kalau rasa nak makan sedap, I’ll just go and enjoy it — no need to tunggu orang temankan. Kadang-kadang moment macam tu yang paling therapeutic.

Kerja pulak? Let’s just say… bukan kerja yang boleh buat sambil pejam mata. Aku terlibat dalam bidang locomotive, and handling this kind of project is no joke. High pressure, full of technical details, and lots of coordination. But I enjoy it — sebab aku tahu ini satu bidang yang rare dan aku bangga jadi sebahagian daripadanya.

Aku jenis yang clear boundaries – kerja is kerja. Personal life, biar luar pintu office. Dari dulu sampai sekarang, aku pegang prinsip tu. Alhamdulillah, aku memang seorang yang strong, disciplined, and passionate about what I do.

Walaupun hari-hari aku penuh dengan task yang tak habis-habis, dalam diam aku tetap rindu. Suamiku, jauh di perantauan, tapi aku tahu dia pun tengah berjuang macam aku. Kita sama-sama kejar impian, cuma jarak je yang memisahkan sekarang.

So yeah, nothing too fancy today. Just one of those normal days — kerja, lunch, rindu.

Tapi kadang-kadang, hari biasa pun boleh jadi istimewa, kalau kita pandang dengan hati yang bersyukur.

So how about you?

Korang jenis yang suka makan sorang tak? Or rasa awkward?

Pernah tak rasa penat kerja sampai lupa nak jaga diri sendiri?

Macam mana korang release stress lepas kerja?

Ada tak pasangan korang yang duduk jauh macam aku? Macam mana korang handle rindu?


Share la sikit pengalaman korang kat komen… mana tahu boleh saling bagi semangat kan 😊✨

Monday

A Year To Try, To Hope, To Prepare…

Honestly, this post is a little special — because it marks the start of a very personal journey. πŸ₯Ί

I made a decision recently.
I told my husband to come and stay with me in Malaysia… for a year. πŸ’‘

Why just one year?
Because I’m not ready to quit my job yet. I still feel like I need this — not just for money, but for my self-worth, my confidence, and my mental strength πŸ’ΌπŸ’†πŸ»‍♀️

So now, he’s still in Turkey πŸ‡ΉπŸ‡·
Working hard, kumpul duit, and preparing himself mentally. InsyaAllah, this coming September, he’ll fly here and live with me for one year. One full year for us to try to conceive (TTC), to adapt, and to grow together ❤️

The challenge?
He doesn’t speak English or Malay πŸ˜…
It’s going to be tough for him. But he’s willing to sacrifice all that — just to be with me, to support me, and to walk this path together as husband and wife.

So what’s this blog to me now?

This blog… is like my little safe space.
I will write here — maybe not every day, maybe not in perfect grammar — but honestly, from my heart. πŸ’Œ
I want to document this one year. The ups, the downs, the breakdowns, the small wins. Dan kalau dalam masa setahun ni masih belum ada rezeki TTC kat Malaysia… mungkin dah tiba masa untuk saya berhijrah ikut dia ke Turki nanti ✈️πŸ‡ΉπŸ‡·

Doakan perjalanan ni dipermudahkan. I may smile a lot, but deep inside — I’m nervous too. But one thing for sure, I believe in Allah’s plan πŸ’«
Thanks for reading… and if you’re also a TTC warrior or someone going through this kind of crossroad — I feel you. Stay strong 🫢🏻

With love,
Nadia 🌸

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